#BlogchatterA2Z X for eXtreme- Positive/Negative Shade of Women

We are just 2 alphabets away from closing this wonderful journey of #BlogchatterA2Z challenge. Today we are on X. So, I am going to be talking about a not so positive shade of women. It’s not a shade exactly but it’s a trait. And that trait is called eXtreme.
While I was deciding on what to write with alphabet X I had huge confusion as there are not many adjectives that define a person or a woman so positively. And plus, I wanted to write not just positive but also highlight the negative shade of a woman. My husband was of great help here as we often discuss on my personality and shades that I cover as a woman and he often tells me that you also have some bit of extremity in your behaviour. You take extreme pain and still don’t stop working, you become extremely angry and keep on dragging it for many days and so on. Thus, I thought why not write about this trait which I am sure many other women have. Yes, being extreme is one of the traits. It may or may not be that positive a trait but as they everyone has positive and negative shade, so does women.
Well, when I think of how women are passionate, compassionate, disciplined and so much more. But as are they say anything beyond the limit is not good. Similarly, all things that good in women can take a negative if it’s outdone. Recently I was watching one of the television shows in which various shades were beautifully portrayed. From being a lover, a wife to being, a mother and then later someone who wanted to take revenge for past. How over love for someone made her take revenge. Well, this was a tele series and we don’t have to bother much. My intention to give this example was to showcase how a woman can get negative if there is an excess of love and hatred. Thus, I say they are extremes.

Having too much of discipline, trying to over control something, loving someone too much, being obsessed about someone or something is all signs of being an extreme that doesn’t really work well. However, the coin has two sides similarly every person has both sides, positive and negative. Women are no Gods to only be positive.
While I sign this off now, I also want to say that women are extreme when it comes to bearing pain, taking the burden of the family quietly, giving love to the kids and family, taking care of elders in the house and keeping the family intact. They definitely take extreme efforts in giving quite a lot which isn’t a negative thing. It’s a positive thing in such cases to be extreme.