Ideally one should say, “we are pregnant”. Yes, pregnancy is both for the father and the mother. The mother plays an upper hand as it is her body that undergoes changes to accommodate the new life. So, does it mean that the newborn should only be nurtured by the mother’s love?
Legends and our ancestors said that it was the father who was the breadwinner for the family. In lieu to earn the bread, fathers had to go out of their houses and work for long hours. This was almost like a natural phenomenon going on in society. Hence, the newborns were mostly with the mothers and the bringing up completely depended on the mother’s petting and loving.
Time changed and in this modern era, things are no longer the same. The breadwinning game is now equally shared by the mother. Likewise, bringing up children equally is bestowed upon the father. In essence, daddy’s love has importance to what we believe.
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So, how is it important? And, what are the advantages of a father’s love?
There are a few factors which will majorly influence the child’s bringing up and personality development. And they are:
- Father’s upbringing by his parents.
- The cultural history of the father.
- Biological History of the father.
- Father’s social profile.
- Father’s contextual characteristics like a relationship with the mother etc.
Importance of Dad’s love for children
1} Cognitive Development
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A highly involved father will help his baby score high in cognitive development scores. Test a 5-month-old, you will get the figures high up. Scientific research proves the fact that fathers who are involved in caregiving activities have children with improved problem-solving kids. The benefits continue to grow and by age 1 your child will be really special. Children who have their fathers involved in bringing up have better educational competence and achieve better grades. The reason behind this could possibly be the way a father communicates to his child. Asking more questions like, who, why & what keeps the child busy in thinking and solving. In the end, the child will have better communication skills and vocabulary.
2} Emotional and Social Development
Stress and frustration are part of life. An involved father’s love will help the child handle the aforementioned incidents better. The maturity of handling frustration will come from the father’s, as they will notice that their fathers are working hard for the family and equally giving time. Constant involvement will make the child feel more secure and confident. A boosted confidence will help the child perform better at school and other social engagements.
3} Commitment and Trust
A father who is equally involved with the mother in bringing up their child will affect positively in instilling of the above-mentioned qualities. The child will know and understand the meaning of commitment and trust between a relationship. The healthy marriage bond will instill a sense of relationship building in the child.
In parenting, there is a huge contribution of the dad’s love in a child’s because the concept of life is based on the 50-50 principle. Both the father and the mother should have an equal contribution towards child development. So all you father’s out there, its high time you begin to bond with your little one and share the responsibility with your partners.
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This is such a lovely post and so true. With my current situation being in a role of a dad to my little princess for 1 n half year I can relate to it very well. Thanks for sharing this,
appriciate your post… lovely
You are absolutely correct. The father’s involvement in the child’s growth curve matters a lot and I agree with all the points you have mentioned. Both my parents were employed and my father’s involvement in household chores went a long way in making me and my sister self sufficient adults.
Agree. Children should have the love and attention of both parents for them to grow as a complete individual.
It’s great that the new age fathers are being hands on father and sharing equal responsibilities of raising a child. This I feel will help in getting rid of the fear that kids otherwise always had of their father. Specially our generation. When fathers get involved in raising kids, kids feel an emotional connect with them and dont fear approaching and talking to them.
Wonderful post.
Beautiful post
You have raised such an important point. It is so necessary for dads to be involved in their child’s life! Glad to say my hubby has been a hand on dad and still is!
Well said this responsibility lies on both parents and father plays an important role in a child’s upbringing
I think I’m privileged because I have a good equation with my father and it gives me type of emotional support you cannot get from anywhere else. An important post this.
I agree with you, Rakhi. Father’s love and involvement is as important as the role of a mother. Fathers who are actively involved in raising their children definitely share a better emotional bond.
Fathers are anchors for everyone. Relatable post. Good to connect with you through Alexa.
I am glad people are more aware of the term equal parenting nowadays and understand that parenting is not a one-person job. Loved reading your thoughts on this topic.
I completely agree with you Rakhi, now time has changed and mother-father equally contribute in family matters . indeed with equal involvement of father, kids can grow as a more mature and responsible person. and can learn a lot from their father’s experience.
Such a beautiful post.
I agree with you. The role of a father is as important as that of a mother. Though no comparison, both play a significant part in the child’s development.
Father’s are always important in a child’s life and in today’s age they have to play an active role in their child’s life…
We should have a prenup and check how the fathers have been brought up by their parents. then we should marry them. because that’s the dangerous point, though important.
yep, there’s a reason it’s called “pairenting” – amirite?! Having a supporting partner is important for mothers,.
Absolutely agree with you, this is the era where and father both have an equal amount of sharing in raising the kids. And I find myself lucky enough to witness my parents to follow the path of sharing responsibility.
A father’s role in raising kids have definitely changed over time. My kids adore their Dad and might go to him more than me being a little strict parent.
This is so very true. Gone are the times where a father was just the breadearner. Parenting and managing the household is a two-person job.
Well written post. Father plays an equally importat role in parenting.
I totaly agree with you on this Rakhi. I feel dad’s involvement surely positively affects kids. more so the kid will respect both genders equally seeing his or father sharing parenting responsibility equally.
Completely agree, Rakhi! It’s time we redefined parenting to include both motherhood and fatherhood. The role of a father is key for parenting a child well. #MyFriendAlexa #TinaReads
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Nice post , parenting has changed over years , now fathers are more involved than before.
Couldnt agree any more!
Can’t agree more… Both the parent’s contribution is needed for the perfect growth of a child. They learn bonding, caring and sharing which is the most important quality one needs to imbibe.
Absolutely agree to your point. A fathers role in parenting is as important as a mother. I have seen the difference it makes when a father is more involved in family life and commitments and when not. Father;s involvement also teaches a child gender sensitivity which is required in today’s modern times. I have a similar post on my blog that talks about the role of a father in positive parenting. I will be glad if you give it a read.
200 % agree with you. Parenthood involves father as much as mother. The role of a father is manyfold and is crucial.The society needs to accept it and your post is really an eye – opener for many. I loved it.
I completely agree with you. The role of dads is changing and I am glad its not same as it was earlier. My husband is a hands on dad and it is really helpful.